Boulder, US, 03/04/2022 / Greenwood & Myers Mortuary /
services are very personal experiences that should reflect the
preferences of the person who has passed. Many people prefer a
traditional funeral ceremony held at their place of worship. However, it
is increasingly common when thinking about how to prepare for funeral
services to consider hosting a non-traditional funeral.
to take that approach frees family members to celebrate the life of
their loved one in creative ways that highlight the person’s personality
and interests. Did they enjoy cooking? Were they a nature lover? Did
they have a love of boating? Were they an artist? A non-traditional
funeral ceremony can showcase the person’s passions and encourage people
to focus less on the loss and more on the joy that their loved one
experienced in life and shared with others.
Coordinating a Personalized Funeral Service
list of ideas for a non-traditional funeral service is virtually
limitless. However, below are 10 suggestions for consideration. Each
enables family members to coordinate a truly unique celebration of the
Host a home funeral. It’s
common in many cultures and religious traditions to gather in the home
of someone who has passed or that of another family member to offer
condolences. Some people choose to go further and host a funeral service
there. This is particularly fitting for a deceased loved one who
enjoyed some of their happiest times at home. An added benefit is that
the funeral ceremony can be scheduled whenever it is convenient for
Plan a memorial concert. For
a music lover, what could be better than having their favorite tunes
played live at their funeral service? Anywhere that musicians can gather
can be the perfect venue for a memorial concert—at a park, at the
beach, or wherever the person would have enjoyed attending a musical
performance in life.
Plant a tree.
If your loved one was a nature
lover, consider coordinating their funeral ceremony around the planting
of a tree. There is tremendous symbolism in continuing the “circle of
life” in this way. Plus, checking on the tree’s progress through the
years will serve as a wonderful reminder of your loved one.
Commission and reveal a painting or other work of art.
Whether it is a portrait of your
loved one, a landscape painting of a place or type of scene they would
appreciate, a sculpture representing their interests or some other item
symbolic of their life, a work of art is a lasting memorial that can be
handed down from generation to generation. And, making its unveiling the
focus of a funeral service will bring a smile to the face of everyone
Host a meal at the person’s favorite restaurant. It
is common to have refreshments or a meal after a traditional funeral
service. But you can conduct the service as part of a gathering at the
person’s favorite restaurant. Sharing a meal has a way of relaxing
people and strengthening the bonds between them, which is something your
loved one would surely approve of.
Coordinate a movie night.
people have a movie that they feel truly encapsulates life for them. If
that is true of your loved one, you can host a showing of that film in
your home and talk before or after the movie about why your loved one
found it so meaningful. Some movie theaters will rent their space when
it is not being used, allowing you to show the movie on a big screen.
Dedicate a small shrine in your home.
One of the things that can
concern both a person who is in their final days and their loved ones is
that memories of the person will quickly fade after they pass. That
concern can be addressed by creating a small, tasteful “shrine” in your
home. Adorned with photos, artworks created by or for the person and
other mementos, the space can be a wonderful reminder of all the person
meant to the people who knew them.
Create a group-sourced memorial book.
memorial book is a portable “shrine” of sorts, and you can build your
funeral ceremony around people providing material for the book. This
material could be photos of the person, handwritten notes about fond
memories of time spent together, etc. Seeing those items collected for
inclusion in the memorial book can help family members and others in
attendance understand and appreciate the impact the person had on those
Scatter the person’s ashes in a favorite location. Cremation
is an increasingly popular choice for the disposition of a deceased
loved one’s physical remains. Once the cremation has been performed,
family and friends can participate in scattering the ashes in a location
that the person loved—into a body of water, along a hiking trail, on a
mountain peak or other elevated location where they watched sunsets,
etc. The scattering of ashes may be prohibited in some places, so you
should do some research before the event takes place.
Have a private service. It
is traditional to invite family and friends to attend a funeral.
However, you are not obligated to do so. You may choose to have only
immediate family at the funeral service and encourage others to
celebrate the life of your loved one in a way of their choosing. If the
thought of hosting a public funeral service is very stressful for you
and your family, an intimate event can alleviate that stress and allow
you to mourn your loss and celebrate the person’s life without that
Arrange a Funeral Ceremony Your Loved One Would Approve Of
people who attend your loved one’s funeral ceremony might not choose
the type of non-traditional service you have arranged. But what matters
is what your loved one would think of the ceremony.
is important that you respect their wishes, whatever those wishes are.
If a festive Hawaiian luau or a lively dance party, rather than a somber
church funeral, would put a smile on their face, then that’s exactly
the type of service you should coordinate.
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